Was I wrong?
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jasonmaxima
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Re: Was I wrong?
Why never ask to compare singpass? or how much she earns to drive her car? Or what the fuel consumption of her car was....
Why never ask to compare singpass? or how much she earns to drive her car? Or what the fuel consumption of her car was....
jasonmaxima
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Its natural to feel pissed and frustrated and hapless etc etc.... But look on the other side of the picture... Your car is going to be parked in the same car park and the lady is going to continue sending her kid to childcare.... If matters had escalated or turned ugly... The safety of your car would be threatened.... So no choice lor... Suck thumb eat humble pie... Hope you dun meet her again.
Soccer player jonleeck would have asked if can 'kiss and make up'....
Its natural to feel pissed and frustrated and hapless etc etc.... But look on the other side of the picture... Your car is going to be parked in the same car park and the lady is going to continue sending her kid to childcare.... If matters had escalated or turned ugly... The safety of your car would be threatened.... So no choice lor... Suck thumb eat humble pie... Hope you dun meet her again.
Soccer player jonleeck would have asked if can 'kiss and make up'....
iltdqd
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Hi meek, you are a nice lady, i'm sincerely sorry if my comment have offended you.
She is clearly unreasonable after being confronted. Everyone has their own way of handling situations, its just me... i will not get upset but i will say in a compassionate way to her "auntie, i really pity your parent passed away when you were very young. if not how can you behave like that?" i think that is the best comment to knock some senses and make her feel embarrass of her action.
Seen many spoiled kids in the public... one of them may be blocking your car after they grown up...
Meek;984017 said:
Hi meek, you are a nice lady, i'm sincerely sorry if my comment have offended you.
She is clearly unreasonable after being confronted. Everyone has their own way of handling situations, its just me... i will not get upset but i will say in a compassionate way to her "auntie, i really pity your parent passed away when you were very young. if not how can you behave like that?" i think that is the best comment to knock some senses and make her feel embarrass of her action.
Seen many spoiled kids in the public... one of them may be blocking your car after they grown up...
pengful
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I don't get what you say. Why do you assume people's parents passed away when she was young. Her parents may still be living. There are so many things to say in this world and you have to use "parents passed away" to what? Knock sense into her?
Yes there are many people with weird behaviour and attitude but this kind of statement should never be used. My father passed away last Dec and I do not appreciate this f**king type of comment to anyone!
Your statement is not only offensive, it also shows what kind of self-conceited person you are. For crying out loud, it was only a normal tit-for-tat in a car park. Your idea of using such a statement is not acceptable.
iltdqd;984131 said:
I don't get what you say. Why do you assume people's parents passed away when she was young. Her parents may still be living. There are so many things to say in this world and you have to use "parents passed away" to what? Knock sense into her?
Yes there are many people with weird behaviour and attitude but this kind of statement should never be used. My father passed away last Dec and I do not appreciate this f**king type of comment to anyone!
Your statement is not only offensive, it also shows what kind of self-conceited person you are. For crying out loud, it was only a normal tit-for-tat in a car park. Your idea of using such a statement is not acceptable.
Re: Was I wrong?
Pengful, I dun know who is iltdqd but I agree with him that if I am angry, anything may and will come out from my mouth. In heated situations, I dun see how one can decide what to say and what not to say. That's why got fights, road rage, arguments, shouting, screaming etc.
in calmer situations, I agree with you mentioning father mother sister brother etc is wrong. That is lack of EQ and IQ.
And thus...like those comments cursing taxi drivers, our comments and reaction towards certain scenarios are based on our own experience and not a common objective view.
pengful;984153 said:
Pengful, I dun know who is iltdqd but I agree with him that if I am angry, anything may and will come out from my mouth. In heated situations, I dun see how one can decide what to say and what not to say. That's why got fights, road rage, arguments, shouting, screaming etc.
in calmer situations, I agree with you mentioning father mother sister brother etc is wrong. That is lack of EQ and IQ.
And thus...like those comments cursing taxi drivers, our comments and reaction towards certain scenarios are based on our own experience and not a common objective view.
jasonmaxima
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Re: Was I wrong?
Is the effect same as rainX? Innocent....
Mockngbrd;984180 said:
Is the effect same as rainX? Innocent....
