Was I wrong?

[XXX]

This evening went to my car at my office carpark and saw a car parked right in front of my car perpendicular with no driver inside, I horned a few times but nobody came.

Waited for 10mins a woman came with a boy and said "Sorry Sorry". I told her she should park in the lot as there are so many empty ones around. (Reason why she didnt is cos its nearer to the carpark exit to the Childcare). She told me no lot just now. (BullS, at that time there were so many lots, unless she has gone away for a ver long time or all the card suddenly disappear. I told her she could park at the drop off point which is just above the Childcare, walking distance via bicycle ramp up. Then she told me she was fetching her boy (my problem? cannot park in lot or dropoff point? I m his daddy must wait for them?)

After that she started shouting angily at me "I said Sorry already Ok?" Wa bo dai bo ji let her shout at. Du Lan I told her sorry wasnt sincere at all, very rude. Then she said thats because my face look very angry and she only went away for awhile to fetch her boy. (Cant I look pissed?) She said I am a man shouldnt be like that (Huh? Guan man simi?) Anyway I told her, she has a kid with her, lets not argue in front of him, I have a kid too and I need to go back for him as well. She went back to her car, took paper and a pen, then drove her car off just a bit, my car had to do a sharp angle turn to get out of the lot. And I guess she wrote my carplate with that paper n pen.

Everyday I look forward to go home to play with my 10mth old boy before he goes to bed, then kanna delayed by such inconsiderate idiots.

Did I do anything wrong?

 

[Sprawler]

Re: Was I wrong?

This evening went to my car at my office carpark and saw a car parked right in front of my car perpendicular with no driver inside, I horned a few times but nobody came.

Waited for 10mins a woman came with a boy and said "Sorry Sorry". I told her she should park in the lot as there are so many empty ones around. (Reason why she didnt is cos its nearer to the carpark exit to the Childcare). She told me no lot just now. (BullS, at that time there were so many lots, unless she has gone away for a ver long time or all the card suddenly disappear. I told her she could park at the drop off point which is just above the Childcare, walking distance via bicycle ramp up. Then she told me she was fetching her boy (my problem? cannot park in lot or dropoff point? I m his daddy must wait for them?)

After that she started shouting angily at me "I said Sorry already Ok?" Wa bo dai bo ji let her shout at. Du Lan I told her sorry wasnt sincere at all, very rude. Then she said thats because my face look very angry and she only went away for awhile to fetch her boy. (Cant I look pissed?) She said I am a man shouldnt be like that (Huh? Guan man simi?) Anyway I told her, she has a kid with her, lets not argue in front of him, I have a kid too and I need to go back for him as well. She went back to her car, took paper and a pen, then drove her car off just a bit, my car had to do a sharp angle turn to get out of the lot. And I guess she wrote my carplate with that paper n pen.

Everyday I look forward to go home to play with my 10mth old boy before he goes to bed, then kanna delayed by such inconsiderate idiots.

Did I do anything wrong?

relac ah brother, dont let this kind of trivial matters spoil ur day

 

[Buywellsellwell]

Re: Was I wrong?

Wait till now then post, u must have stored till bei ta Han. Chill bro. Sometimes u think n speak logically, people think n speak emotionally. Frequency all wrong. Nothing to be angry with. Cheers.

 

[ktnpl]

Re: Was I wrong?

If that woman is so inconsiderate and unremorseful, then she is not befiting of a lady, so you also need not be a gentleman to her. Must 随机应变. Say if that unladylike thing is about to whip your ass, a real man got to do what a man need to do. Defend your pride
After dealing with it decisively and if the other party learn to be more considerate next time, there only there will be peace and 雨過天晴.

 

[LimPeh]

Re: Was I wrong?

You should 笑傲江湖

 

[sszone]

Re: Was I wrong?

If you are really pissed, you can write a letter to the child care n cc building mgmt.
childcare probably put a reminder for parents not to do that.
the lady would probably know its referring to ppl like her n hopefully no more such incidents will occur.

 

[iltdqd]

Re: Was I wrong?

no need to upset... forgive her as she must be very young when her parent passed away. Zero upbringing.

 

[SapphireSpite]

Re: Was I wrong?

U are wrong, she probably took a picture of your car and probably Stomp-ing her way now.

Titled, "INCONSIDERATE DRIVER, MUST BE BMW"

Stomper KindLady was fetching her child at the childcare and noticed that there was no parking lots...............

 

[Meek]

Re: Was I wrong?

no need to upset... forgive her as she must be very young when her parent passed away. Zero upbringing.

This is not nice thing to say... she could be anyone's wife or sister.

TS, let it go. I think being a parent is hard... having to fetch your child alone to go these and find no car park. (Give her the benefit of the doubt la). True, you did wait 10 minutes but why not treat that as helping someone?

I think the woman was afraid of you hence got emotional and defensive (trying to jot down your plate number). Maybe she thought you had taken pictures of her car blocking you... so in case you reported her she at least knows who did.

Sometimes we meet ppl who are not at their best behaviour. We may not know what situation the person is in and cant rationalise why they are doing that. Sometimes its just random.

算了吧。

 

[wobbles]

Re: Was I wrong?

Sometimes we meet ppl who are not at their best behaviour. We may not know what situation the person is in and cant rationalise why they are doing that. Sometimes its just random.

算了吧。

Err.... sometimes, it's just the upbringing - or in this case, the lack thereof.

 

[Meek]

Re: Was I wrong?

Err.... sometimes, it's just the upbringing - or in this case, the lack thereof.

Upbringing is just one of the reasons... but to curse ppls parents is really not nice. The person may have gone through a hellish day or week or month or even year... who know... and prolly just needs some slack.

 

[The Guardian]

Re: Was I wrong?

She must be driving a bmw that entitles her to park infront of carpark entrance, cars, drop off points.... N the list goes on.

 

[golilok]

Re: Was I wrong?

just smile at her, wave on and drive off
makes bmw sart sart

 

[kevinbmw]

Re: Was I wrong?

Is she a milf?
Let it be bro..人家气我，我不气，如果气就中他计！

 

[vegadonovan]

Re: Was I wrong?

This evening went to my car at my office carpark and saw a car parked right in front of my car perpendicular with no driver inside, I horned a few times but nobody came.

Waited for 10mins a woman came with a boy and said "Sorry Sorry". I told her she should park in the lot as there are so many empty ones around. (Reason why she didnt is cos its nearer to the carpark exit to the Childcare). She told me no lot just now. (BullS, at that time there were so many lots, unless she has gone away for a ver long time or all the card suddenly disappear. I told her she could park at the drop off point which is just above the Childcare, walking distance via bicycle ramp up. Then she told me she was fetching her boy (my problem? cannot park in lot or dropoff point? I m his daddy must wait for them?)

After that she started shouting angily at me "I said Sorry already Ok?" Wa bo dai bo ji let her shout at. Du Lan I told her sorry wasnt sincere at all, very rude. Then she said thats because my face look very angry and she only went away for awhile to fetch her boy. (Cant I look pissed?) She said I am a man shouldnt be like that (Huh? Guan man simi?) Anyway I told her, she has a kid with her, lets not argue in front of him, I have a kid too and I need to go back for him as well. She went back to her car, took paper and a pen, then drove her car off just a bit, my car had to do a sharp angle turn to get out of the lot. And I guess she wrote my carplate with that paper n pen.

Everyday I look forward to go home to play with my 10mth old boy before he goes to bed, then kanna delayed by such inconsiderate idiots.

Did I do anything wrong?

No you didn't. if you had took it easy, you are just encouraging her to continue that behavior. Sad to sad there are lot of bad habits in this society that took place day in day out because others just chin chai lah, give chance a bit.

And when confronted they :

1) got more angry than you because they ALREADY signaled , so they must change lane RIGHT away.
2) got more angry than you because they ALREADY said sorry.
3) got more angry than you because they ALREADY late for meeting

and what not.

This case made you look like it's personal? but I seriously think her behavior had been encouraged by the hundreds who just smiled and said " no problem lah, your kid is very cute" =)

I guess some bros will say, aiyah maybe laosai, or really no lots or really no choice, those can happen how many times? because with our own eyes, I see a lot of situation unwarranted, just to make other's inconvenient because they don't give a damn =(

Ok rant finished. Chill, rainy day today =) Have a cup of nescafe and eat some prata =) Enjoy!

 

[vegadonovan]

Re: Was I wrong?

U are wrong, she probably took a picture of your car and probably Stomp-ing her way now.

Titled, "INCONSIDERATE DRIVER, MUST BE BMW"

Stomper KindLady was fetching her child at the childcare and noticed that there was no parking lots...............

haha sounds so true and real. are you stomper too? =) I got all my gossips from STOMP hehe.

 

[XXX]

Re: Was I wrong?

Thanks for reading and commenting guts. @ Iltdqd, yeah probably something wrong with her upbringing and shes definately not giving good example to the boy, so am I being involved, but its not nice to curse pple's parents la, thanks for the good intention.

Its a small issue but somehow it digs into my flesh... I really wonder why, am I guilty of doing something wrong or what.

I had a long hectic week, suppose to submit a task which processes could dragged me till 8plus, but I FK it and decided to head home at 630 cos had some misunderstanding the day before with my wife, baby slept early that gave me little time to play with.

Usually before heading home I will go to nearby Fairprice to stock up some stuffs for the week and then go home prepare dinner, but cos of the misunderstading the day before and dont want to miss playtime with my baby boy, I decided to skip Fairprice and head back home straight. Heck my job, skip Fairprice, just wanted to fly back home to have a good friday n weekend with family, go to my car and to see a car blocking my car.

Her "I said Sorry already right" with drawn eyebrows, bigs eyes with whites surrounding her pupils, upper lip lifted exposing her teeth, look similar to my neighbours dog barking at the gate. Really is quite disturbing. Haha. Anyway I think schools should really teach children when saying sorry, mean it, and don't expect Sorry cures everything instantly.

Ok enough of ranting, have a good weekend guys. I'll try to be more tolerating, patient, gracious in this rotting SG.

 

[XXX]

Re: Was I wrong?

Is she a milf?
Let it be bro..人家气我，我不气，如果气就中他计！

Yeah, those lady boss look type.

 

[Mockngbrd]

Re: Was I wrong?

You should empty a dustbin over her car then walk away and enjoy the show

 

[agentwilson]

Re: Was I wrong?

If that woman is so inconsiderate and unremorseful, then she is not befiting of a lady, so you also need not be a gentleman to her. Must 随机应变. Say if that unladylike thing is about to whip your ass, a real man got to do what a man need to do. Defend your pride
After dealing with it decisively and if the other party learn to be more considerate next time, there only there will be peace and 雨過天晴.

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