What would you do.....?
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Red_Bean_Bun
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Re: What would you do.....?
Go expose the dog man woman.......
Go expose the dog man woman.......
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Once you say, you will forever be the marriage breaker. No one will thank you for it.
And for a strange reason, what goes around comes round. I will take this as a life anecdote to watch over my other half more closely and ensure it doesn't happen to me. If you treat your other half well and respect him/ her, he or she will have the chance or time to hold others hands? Self reflection. IMHO.
Once you say, you will forever be the marriage breaker. No one will thank you for it.
And for a strange reason, what goes around comes round. I will take this as a life anecdote to watch over my other half more closely and ensure it doesn't happen to me. If you treat your other half well and respect him/ her, he or she will have the chance or time to hold others hands? Self reflection. IMHO.
SapphireSpite
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Ask your friend hubby why he like that , if he really what u think it is , then ask him why .
But don't tell your friend , later cause of you the marriage break down u gg
Ask your friend hubby why he like that , if he really what u think it is , then ask him why .
But don't tell your friend , later cause of you the marriage break down u gg
SapphireSpite
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But first u needs to ask , then later u feel paiseh then don't want to ask , but then u pity your friend so you have to ask, but want to ask also scared you get bad things , y so confuses ?
golilok;923414 said:
But first u needs to ask , then later u feel paiseh then don't want to ask , but then u pity your friend so you have to ask, but want to ask also scared you get bad things , y so confuses ?
Baby1M
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If she is my close friend, I will check things out with her. If she is just a friend... I didn't see it and mind my own biz.
Anyway....
For men: I heard there's a saying - when u r attached/married, do not fool around in your 'own backyard' i.e. here in SG. Disclaimer, I m not promoting such acts.
For Female: After marriage, don't start to deteriorate... keep thyself always young and sexy but not trying to act young.
If she is my close friend, I will check things out with her. If she is just a friend... I didn't see it and mind my own biz.
Anyway....
For men: I heard there's a saying - when u r attached/married, do not fool around in your 'own backyard' i.e. here in SG. Disclaimer, I m not promoting such acts.
For Female: After marriage, don't start to deteriorate... keep thyself always young and sexy but not trying to act young.
Chocs
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...TS, I tell u a personal experience I knw. A frd's hubby same situation la...
... I dun bother, not my biz. I knw, lots will say, u this type Frd ah? If u were the one, u wan to knw anot? Blah blah blah etc etc etc...
...there will be "Samaritans", wan 2 alert...whichever party la. I tell u a truth. Women has the type of acute 6th Sense, u dun wan 2 mess abt with... Sum choose 2 be blind, 4 wadever reasons , their own decisions. The most one can do is hint...if u really cannot zzz over it...
...tt said Frd has a Frd, who alerted. Guessed wad? Things thus got out of hand, when thru whole drama, u named it...now couple decided 2 moved on, stick 2gether, scar or wadever, sure hve, cos everyone near them knws....there will be the unavoidable awkward moments when we do meet once a while.
...but Frd who tipped off? No Frd liow.
...the line is so thin, like tt of a thread of a spiderweb.....
...TS, I tell u a personal experience I knw. A frd's hubby same situation la...
... I dun bother, not my biz. I knw, lots will say, u this type Frd ah? If u were the one, u wan to knw anot? Blah blah blah etc etc etc...
...there will be "Samaritans", wan 2 alert...whichever party la. I tell u a truth. Women has the type of acute 6th Sense, u dun wan 2 mess abt with... Sum choose 2 be blind, 4 wadever reasons , their own decisions. The most one can do is hint...if u really cannot zzz over it...
...tt said Frd has a Frd, who alerted. Guessed wad? Things thus got out of hand, when thru whole drama, u named it...now couple decided 2 moved on, stick 2gether, scar or wadever, sure hve, cos everyone near them knws....there will be the unavoidable awkward moments when we do meet once a while.
...but Frd who tipped off? No Frd liow.
...the line is so thin, like tt of a thread of a spiderweb.....
wobbles
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Dat's why I said, NOT MY BIZNESS. THis kind of situation, only got lose-lose, never got win-win. Unless the Thread Starter's gal-pal is a real hottie MILF and there are embers of desire, deep seated in TS' loins.... otherwise, when shit hits the fan, and hell comes home to roost, the "samaritan" will sure ganna blamed for all sorts of muck - and, like what Chocs mei said, if the couple decides to patch up (for the kids, for the $, for love, for fcuk care), the "samaritan" will no longer be a friend.
Your mileage may vary, of course, but by and large, I always ask myself the following questions before I poke my nose into somebody else's business:
a. Is anyone going to die if I don't tell?
b. Is the world going to end if I don't tell?
c. Will I strike Toto and be able to afford a Pink Bentley for my maid if I tell?
If the answers above are all "NO", I don't tell.
Chocs;923454 said:
Dat's why I said, NOT MY BIZNESS. THis kind of situation, only got lose-lose, never got win-win. Unless the Thread Starter's gal-pal is a real hottie MILF and there are embers of desire, deep seated in TS' loins.... otherwise, when shit hits the fan, and hell comes home to roost, the "samaritan" will sure ganna blamed for all sorts of muck - and, like what Chocs mei said, if the couple decides to patch up (for the kids, for the $, for love, for fcuk care), the "samaritan" will no longer be a friend.
Your mileage may vary, of course, but by and large, I always ask myself the following questions before I poke my nose into somebody else's business:
a. Is anyone going to die if I don't tell?
b. Is the world going to end if I don't tell?
c. Will I strike Toto and be able to afford a Pink Bentley for my maid if I tell?
If the answers above are all "NO", I don't tell.
Euphoria
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Thanks for sharing your thoughts guys and gals.
I just feel so sorry for my friend.
In fact, I just met up with another friend who divorced her husband because of another woman. She told me, initially she wanted to act blur and pretend nothing happened all for the sake of letting her kids have a complete family. But things got worse and out of hand, so she decided enough is enough. These are just some of the unfortunate cases I've come across. I've also encountered husbands who stay home and CBL while the wife goes out to work to feed the whole family. When I heard this, I was like.....WTH! WTF! KNN! KNNBCCB!
Thanks for sharing your thoughts guys and gals.
I just feel so sorry for my friend.
In fact, I just met up with another friend who divorced her husband because of another woman. She told me, initially she wanted to act blur and pretend nothing happened all for the sake of letting her kids have a complete family. But things got worse and out of hand, so she decided enough is enough. These are just some of the unfortunate cases I've come across. I've also encountered husbands who stay home and CBL while the wife goes out to work to feed the whole family. When I heard this, I was like.....WTH! WTF! KNN! KNNBCCB!
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I have also come across wives 'steal man' whilst the husband working very hard to feed the whole family.
Is this a self defense mechanism from a bad marriage or simply a norm in current society based on your many experiences? I need some counseling...
Euphoria;923463 said:
I have also come across wives 'steal man' whilst the husband working very hard to feed the whole family.
Is this a self defense mechanism from a bad marriage or simply a norm in current society based on your many experiences? I need some counseling...
Re: What would you do.....?
Practice foresight, not hindsight. Easy for us to look at a situation and give comments. Wait till it happens to ourselves....
P.s. hello euphoria. I m getting confused if you are a bro or sis. Haha. If the former, for god sake don't interfere. Guys will always be branded the bastard with hidden agenda for telling on another guy, albeit him being in the wrong. No guys are saint, sorry, so I always tell myself don't play god and try tread the moral high ground.
If the latter sex, I can empathize the sis-to-sis thingy and how you have to tell a fellow women. But truth is ( and as one of the bros here shared in another post) you will def lose the friendship one way or another. Too many of such incidences happened. Moral high ground? I rather save my efforts around my herd. What goes around comes round. History is a scarily accurate indicator.
Practice foresight, not hindsight. Easy for us to look at a situation and give comments. Wait till it happens to ourselves....
P.s. hello euphoria. I m getting confused if you are a bro or sis. Haha. If the former, for god sake don't interfere. Guys will always be branded the bastard with hidden agenda for telling on another guy, albeit him being in the wrong. No guys are saint, sorry, so I always tell myself don't play god and try tread the moral high ground.
If the latter sex, I can empathize the sis-to-sis thingy and how you have to tell a fellow women. But truth is ( and as one of the bros here shared in another post) you will def lose the friendship one way or another. Too many of such incidences happened. Moral high ground? I rather save my efforts around my herd. What goes around comes round. History is a scarily accurate indicator.
