Re: Forum recently in war
Yes, the forum is a place to chill out and have fun and have good BMW discussions.
All the admins want - is for members to be civil, polite and at the very least, NOT TO ANSWER if you have
nothing constructive to add.
The trend recently in the past few weeks is the regular and 'old school' members are becoming extremely nasty in terms of engaging the new forum members and they're sending in their feedback to us for review.
Hey - if you can't stand their questions or find them too 'dumb' or 'smart alec', click '
Back' on your internet browser and continue on your merry way.
That's all we ask.
You were new here once.
You didn't know a lot more info before compared to what you do know today. Does that give you a 'right' to be degrading towards a new member on the forums? Is that what we're all aspiring to be? An 'elite' group that shuns away newbies?
We welcome humour, definitely welcome banter. But we do not want to create a hostile and negative environment where new forum members are afraid to start discussions - where a 'group' of seasoned members come in to bully, harass and even gang up on them.
BMW.SG is nothing without its members as you mentioned... very true.
That said - we get over 1,900 UNIQUE visitors to our forums
every day. (see screen shot below) We take decisions for the welfare and majority of the community (especially those who are silent) who comes to learn from the forums every day. Unless you want them to continuously see negative posts in every thread and have this forum degrade to the point that we earn the title of 'Most horrible forum in Singapore' - then please go ahead.
But we won't allow that to happen by doing nothing.
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See.. the thing is - it's difficult to always ban friends and members on the forum. Especially those who you've known for years.
I know and respect these guys in real life, especially when they're successful individuals in their own respective fields. But when things cross borders online - We have to put on our blinkers for the sake of the greater community - especially those who don't say anything.
We don't usually step in until things get bad. And yes, things got bad. To the point we had to remove personal and identifying information about a particular member due to retaliation. (
seriously not funny)
We just ask of all to be civil and polite to every one. You never know who you might meet online.
You can decide to be a joker in the lounge area - we don't really bother.
But don't be an ass to the point someone decides to take it up a notch and sends the stuff you post to your spouse/partner/business associate.
If you want to bitch about a company - We can't stop you - but just remember they may sue you and that's not fun either.
Watch your language, watch your tone and be nice to members (new and old). (if you can't then just don't reply to threads that you don't want to see).
pengful;991621 said:
Bobby, though I have never met you I think what you said made a lot of sense. This forum is like a kopi tiam like some said. You talk cock you sing song and occasionally you answer a few stupid qns that are google-able (got such word or not?). Anyway, the silly answers (because of silly qns) became OT but, but, but they were enjoyable OT. The subtle message to the silly qn asker is.... go figure and go to a f**king workshop!
I don't think this forum is a place where nothing gets answered. Many of us have shared our car breakdown stories or save money stories (if you bother to search) and it annoys the hell out of everyone when silly qns get asked again. The most annoying part is you try to ignore, don't answer and some smart alek will BUMP it up again... argghhhh!
Anyway, what I want to say is this forum is a great place to be in, but please bring with you some sense of humor, and all will be good. Btw, where are MW, Kenn, Toto, etc? I will say for the record, without them (of course C3PO, Milk, iscoupe, sszone, jonleek, too many I cannot name all), BMW.SG is NOTHING.
Peace and sleep well... (just came back from biking around my house park connector and now my ka chng very peng, I mean pain).